Do the Relationships Ever Last?

This week on teen mom we saw 2 of the teens mom deal with guy problem. Coincident? I don’t think so! We all have heard that females mature faster than males do, so it is no wonder some of the guys on this show are so irresponsible and very immature.

First of all, Chelsea needs to be done with her ex-boyfriend Adam. Chelsea and Adam broke up last week and there has been nothing but drama between them now. I was actually shocked because Chelsea and Adam broke up quite gracefully, so there was an ounce of hope in me that thought they where just going to be settle towards each other. That hope got shattered when I realized that Adam hasn’t changed since the first season of 16 and Pregnant. He is still the guy who thinks he is a woman’s dream man, but in reality he is nothing but a crooked hat and a lot of talk. Did I mention that he owes over two thousands dollars in child support, doesn’t have a job and is seeing another girl within a week of breaking up with Chelsea? A real keeper isn’t he? Than he has the nerve to call Chelsea and demands that he see’s his child.  Thank gosh Chelsea finally stood up for herself and told him no. I can see that Chelsea still wants to be with Adam but won’t confess it. She really needs to realize that this is not what she wants, and she needs to start focusing more on herself, her baby and her schoolwork.

            On to the next man that needs to be dumped, Keefer, Jenelle’s boyfriend. Her mom said it all when she said that “ever since Keefer has been around there has been nothing but trouble”, and its true. Since she has been dating Keefer she has 1) been kicked out of her 3 times, 2) stole her mom’s credit cards 3) caught smoking marijuana, 4) Feel way behind in school 5) lost her job. No wonder why she wants to stay with him so badly, greatness surrounds her when she is with him. 

I want to slap her and Chelsea both and say, “Hey, stop being dumb”. As a woman I would never want to surround myself with such jerks, that have no life, that have no job, and frankly are going nowhere in life. They desire much better. I don’t know if they think they don’t because they have a kid but they do.  I think that the best think for both of them right now is to truly commit to being a better mother and not worry about having a boyfriend. And hopefully, they will realize that they should be with better guys someday.