The Teen Mom after show was full of surprises when each girl talked to Dr. Drew about the season. Since the show is over I though I would blog about parts of the after show until the new season of 16 and Pregnant starts. Out of all the interviews there is one that stuck out in my head, and that was Dr. Drew’s interview with Jenelle.
The interview started off fine Dr. Drew talked to Jenelle about Kleefler. He went on to explain that he didn’t like him and that he felt that Kleefler used Jenelle. Jenelle went on to explain how she was done with him and how she disliked him very much. To me though, this sounds exactly what Jenelle said after she went a bailed Kleefler out of jail. She keeps going back to this guy, and it is not healthy for her. She needs to be focused on the only man in her life, her son. I believe that if stops trying to find someone to be her boyfriend, or whatever the case might be, she will do a lot better in life because she won’t have anyone to distract her. Maybe I am the only one who realized this, but every time Jenelle is with a guy she blows off everything to be with them. This is not healthy that she is that desperate for male attention. If you look back further though, where is Jenelle’s father in this picture? Throughout all the seasons I have not heard Jenelle mention once anything about her dad. She is so worried about having male attention that she disregards everything else in her life to have it. Jenelle also talked a lot about how she feels that she is so lonely. I personally believe that if she stops trying to find someone so baldy she will realize that she isn’t alone and won’t ever be alone because of her son. But in order for that to happen she needs to stop hanging around bad influences and start making wiser choices. No matter if you are a teen mom or just a mom, it is their responsibility to put their child first, before their own needs.
Talking about mothers bring me to Jenelle’s mother Barb. If you wonder why Jenelle seems to have so many problems look at her mother and you would know why. Dr. Drew asked Barb to name off three good things about Jenelle. It took her 5 minutes to think of 2, and she could not think of a third one. What kind of mother can’t look at positives in her child.. I think that this mother is the reason that Jenelle wants to be loved and wants someone in her life so badly. Because truthfully I don’t think that her mother loves her as much as she thinks she does. Than Barb went on to mention that she does not think that Jenelle is loveable. WHAT! How can you not love your own child. No matter how many mistakes a person makes, that does not make them not loveable. Who says something like that to their own child. I am flabbergasted that she would even ever consider saying that. I think that Jenelle needs to get away from the negativity that her mother brings upon her and do the right things so she can get her child back , and than he rand her son can be their own little family. Hopefully Jace (Jenelle’s son) feels more loved than Jenelle was by her mother.
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